Try using Father’s shield of a dowry to win girlfriends before the sword.
I have made five businesses as dowries for my girlfriends they are:
Proverbs 5:1-23 ESV
My son, be attentive to my wisdom; incline your ear to my understanding, that you may keep discretion, and your lips may guard knowledge. For the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil, but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps follow the path to Sheol; ...
A lot of women just take, take, take and without appreciation. Relationships are about give and take. Take an inventory of those toxic relationships of people that just use you and cut them out of your lives....
You might think my words come from that of a rich man. But they are not I am poor. But I speak words that are just and relieve poverty.
It encourages the rich to take on wives and servants reducing poverty in the world....
To be saved from the four horsemen you must:
Grow your own food
Gives dowries to your girlfriends up to five
Have servants work for you to build Gods kingdom and treat them well
Have many children to your girlfriends and servant girls
Do this and your family will be saved by the lord....