Second horseman- red horse -war
If a woman has a child to a non believer it is like she has killed one of Gods children and has chosen Satan. They then become Gods enemy and should be fought to stop their advances into Gods land. Only if the child’s father converts to the religion and looks after his own children will there be peace.
Choose and take five girlfriends that are without children. Argue with them not to be whores but to be wives by the flaming sword.